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I like to think that there is a reasonable explanation for everything.
There are two sides to every story.
Break down complex problems into small pieces and start with the simplest one first and life gets much clearer I think.
There are no mysteries just problems waiting to be solved.
But every now and than you come across some nasty looking piece of logic left in the middle of the road by some fucked up nut that makes you stop and say what the hell is this?
Case in point I was outside over at a friend's place talking when one of her neighbors drove up got out of her car with her boyfriend and kid and went to her apartment.
My friend remarked how she couldn't stand the woman, now before I could stop my self I asked why, seeing how the last time I was around they were very friendly with each other.
Apparently they had a falling out.
Observation: What I have noticed, and some of you might want to take this as a warning, is that when women fall out with each other, or with men for that matter, every little dirty secret that they shared with each other gets thrown out in the street.
She than tells me that this woman is,
1- divorced,
2- former stripper,
3- bisexual but is currently dating this one dude.
4- she is 37 he is 25,
5- he despite being younger is controlling in the relationship and demands that she be around at all times when he is not out doing something.
6- she has herpes which she contracted from her ex husband.
I stopped her on the last part, she had me hooked so I asked the obvious questions, like does the current boyfriend know?
Yes he knows or rather he was informed by her after they slept together a few times.
Her rational for this is that she was not having an out break, they only had sex with out a condom twice and she regularly takes her medication for it.
Here is a little bit of info for you, some one who has herpes simplex viruses type 1 or 2 can transmit the virus to another person with out having out break.
A condom will not save you and the medication does not cure you.
So dude gets tested and comes out negative, but get this......he comes back to her.
I thought I was hearing things but hell I just saw him get out the car with her so I guess so.
I don't know maybe it's just me......
I could be overly sensitive.......
Maybe I am just not that opened minded.......
I just cant see my self running back into the arms of a woman who gave me an STI......
No, hell no, especially after I lucked out and tested negative.
When I worked in a clinic I came across all sorts of diseases that would make the CDC blow up, and I never blinked an eye.
But herpes was the one thing I just couldn't be around, it shook the hell out of me, made my skin crawl.
I can deal with HIV, full blown AIDS, Swine Flu, walking pneumonia, bacterial meningitis you name it.
Not herpes.
So at this point I am not even thinking of her trifling ass I'm think about his trifling ass and what the hell is running through his head.
And I don't want to hear that love mess either.
Sharing a disease might be the ultimate expression of love from what ever planet these two are from but I would rather take a bullet for you instead.
That is just twisted.
Now I know there are people who are desperate for companionship, they need a person, any type of person, to make them feel whole.
But come the hell on man, herpes?
Y'all nasty as hell out here man.
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19 comments:
not.... THE HERP!!
lol. that's sick. they're sick. and that pic of the green monsters has me ROLLING.
But. I have a question... you'd take HIV or full blown aids over the herp? in mine eyes,
herp = forever.
aids = death + nasty lookin scabs and random ish on your body.
lol
Selah,
I dont mean as in getting it, lol. I meant if I had to take care of a patient.
people with herpes need love too. say he did get it from her then, what? everyone has herpes a type of it. but the sexually transmitted kind isn't pretty. are you just being silly? i can see your issue with the story.
p.s. don't come on my blog hating on the saints. lol had to say it
Is it me or did common sense drop off the must have list? Hell, some folks share HIV so I guess this shouldn't be a surprise.
I...just...don't...get...it!
How soon after possibly being infected did he test for it? Could it have been a false negative? I'm not so much puzzled that he would go back to a woman that he loves, who has herpes. I'm puzzled that he would go back to a woman that hid it from him and gambled with his quality of life. I'm not sure if that makes him nasty...it just makes him stupid.
The things we do in order not to be alone...
MLM,
"people with herpes need love too"
Say what?
No patner there is a difference between two honest informed adults making a decision to be together vs one with holding information and purposely infecting some one else. Fuck love, thats pure selfishness.
"Say he did get it from her then, what?"
Then lawsuit.
"everyone has herpes a type of it."
You know very well I am talking about the sexually transmitted type 1 and 2.
"are you just being silly?"
Hell no, are you?
"i can see your issue with the story."
Damn right I do, that mess is dirty right there, I be mad as hell if some woman tried that with me.
And the clock is ticking on your Saints, lol.
CurvyGurl ♥,
I can understand two people who are infected getting together, hell i can understand and infected person and some one who is not infected getting together if the truth was put out there upfront.
But deception is never good.
LB,
Thats a good question, I didnt ask, but I am sure that makes him both nasty and stupid.
Gayte,
Thats what it all comes down to in the end.
I don't know. Aren't Magic and Cookie still together after he cheated and got AIDS. or did it happen before her.
There could be more to the story. Like he has it and the friend doesn't know or he has something his girlfriend doesn't know about.
And maybe her and the friend use to get down and the friend is making some of it up.
Two sides . .
Personally, I don't want anyone who would deceive me like that.
Sharon,
Once Magic founf out he told her and she chose to stay so that is different. In this case there was deception from the begining. But even that that doesnt surprise me, you just have people out in the world like that. His choice to stay after being lied to is "special" though.
BWAHAHAH i'm over here DYING at your response to Must Love Movies. Cuz as I was reading that comment those were the EXACT.SAME.THANGS. I was thinking. lol ... like... da hell she mean?????
smh.
Selah,
Lol.
yea cl i'm being silly. i know you are talking bout the std. i never said she was right. you were making it like herpes was a write off and should be for everyone. that's why i said they need love too. nawh it isn't cool like i said i understand your point.
in addition ya'll act like he doesn't have any fault in this.
MLM,
I got nothing against finding love, my issue here is she was not up front about it. And trust me he is not off the hook, but what exactly would you blame him for?
for having unprotected sex without going get tested with that person. i'm saying you are more mad than he is. he probably knew his fault in the situation. like there is a risk everytime.
i was just gonna say wow it is so easy to be misunderstood when you type what you are saying. i've had many people flip out on me online lately. i'm not eloquent with my comments and ims.
p.s. you can use my chatbox to leave extra messages
MLM,
Lol, yeah i am hot as hell about what he did cause i feel it's attitudes like that that puts everyone else at risk.
wow, i'm blown away, she must swallow.
Zena,
Lol, I have no idea.
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