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For some one who is supposed to be wishing all women a serious case of swine flu like yeast infections I damn sure find myself in their company a lot.
Ive been doing the lunch date thing quite a bit lately.
Monday I took, will call her...Ms. K, to lunch at Moe's.
Nice little semi Mexican spot with good food in Decatur.
Ive knew her through a neighbor she was staying with were always hanging out in front of our building like it's a New York corner so we new each other casually.
She is chocolate skin, full lips with puffy cheeks, she has the type of eyes that squint up when she isn't wearing her glasses but she looks real good with frames on.
We were chilling and I decided to ask her out for lunch which she agreed to, you see when you do the lunch thing it is like a pre date date.
When you take out some at night there is the understanding that this is a getting to know you date to see what road we are taking which should lead straight to the bed.
For some women knowing the end goal can be like a knowing the end of a book or a movie, basically they'll get around to reading or watching it when they feel like it.
But the lunch date?
Aha, now that right there is my opportunity to see what type of woman you are first cause in the middle of the day your not thinking about how the night is going to end your thinking about how the day ends.
It's like that movie were the guy masturbates before going out with a woman, joke if you want but that is the truth, bust one before you go out and you will be shocked how attentive and patient you are with a woman no matter how hot she is.
So that's what the lunch date feels like your more paying attention to what this lady is about and I did find out a bit.
The conversation was smooth going over some nachos and cold fruit juice, which was well need considering how hot it was that day.
She not too long ago separated from her husband who was cheating on her, leaving her three sons in his custody, that's why she was crashing at her cousin and his girl's house till she got back on her feet.
She got married at 16 is now 28, and never worked a day in her life and is currently unemployed, (not a good look), and has no intention of going back to him, (I understand that), but does plan on getting married again, (wont be me) and having another kid, (damn sure it wont be me).
Plans on going back to school, (good) for medical billing, (not good), she has a tongue ring, (freak), smokes weed, (don't care), drinks, (welcome to the club), sleeps all day, (problem), and hinted at being bisexual, (JACKPOT!!).
She seems like a nice woman but truth is I am just going through the motions, I'm still shell shocked from the go around with the ex so i have been giving women big talk and no action.
I ain't going to bust a grape with her, and I knew it going in, but I figure if I get back in the saddle I'll be flying down the trail in no time.
So I'll probably be posting a lot more of these day light rendezvous, but hey I got nothing better to do.
Peace.
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18 comments:
Well, alrighty...he's baaaack. Seriously though, you made some good points.
I agree that you made some great points. One big one is knowing yourself well enough right now to know that you are not looking for anything serious and not pretending.
Lunch dates are great for all the reasons you mentioned and there were some red flags during that one, LOL!
But know that each person that comes across your path is there for a reason. Learn the lesson and move on wiser.
yea sounds good. i want to go on a lunch date. dinner dates are so boring.
LOL! The lunch date pointers are so true!!!
yeah um no, I'm not feeling this chick either. lol
Usually I'm not a critical person but damn... The fact that she's bi and recently divorced seems to indicate that she's been stepping out just like the ex so wtf? Sleeps all day - no wonder he got the kids.
That was hilarious, but like the others said, that sista was on BIG red flag. NEXT!
OKAY NOT TOO MANY LUNCH DATES THOUGH...L(O)L
lol some of our views are diff but some are the same on this post.
I think lunch dates are more carefree. at ur bracket comments in the 4th to last paragraph: totally hilarious
reminds me of afternoon vs night phonecalls
Good line:
"ha, now that right there is my opportunity to see what type of woman you are first cause in the middle of the day your not thinking about how the night is going to end your thinking about how the day ends."
Are you sure, this strategy works. Someone don't care about what time of day it is!
Hey dont wish us such things...and I'll go on a date with you ( Gayte-Keeper looking over my shoulder) ok ok well maybe not a date..lol
** I changed my blog link to
www.kinshar7067.blogspot.com
If you have a link for my blog on your page...then you might want to change it.
I'm happy to see you enjoying the company of women again vs. wanting to rip our eyes out with a rusty spoon. ;-)
I'm of the opinion that the best relationship to develop first is friendship. That is the one that lasts the longest.
It sounds like your lady friend is at the crossroads of her life. And she does have some work that she needs to do to upgrade herself. But, I have learned that is always the case when you live a life up under the sun.
Enjoy yourself and honor how you feel about this situation. Where is it written that every relationship we develop in life is supposed to intimate and lead to love?
I love food. So you automatically get a thumbs up for the lunch time meet up.
CurvyGurl,
Thanks.
Kay C, The Quiet Storm,
Very true, thanks.
Must Love Movies,
I think there is more to do during the day too.
Dope Fiend,
I think she is just in a rough spot in her life right now.
Nicki Nicki Tembo,
Not neccessarily, she might now have the freedom to explore her self now that she no longer plays the role of wife and mother. Besides I could be reading her wrong, dont think so but could be.
Mizrepresent,
Yeah she has too many issues.
Gayte,
Lol, there going so well though.
Bombchell,
Thats exactly what I wanted to say, care free. No putting on airs or fronts.
Mrs Grapevine,
Lol, well it is a theory, not law.
Oyin,
Lol, when ever your ready.
Shae,
Well we knew that I wasnt going to be feeling that way for long.
Ms Lady Deborah,
I used to think that way too but now I am of the opiion that getting into a relationship will ruin the friendship.
it's okay to test the waters. and i must say, i love visiting your site. your music never fails me!
lunch dates are great ideas... but i dunno about this lady, Ms. K.
it's good to see how you judge women from just their appearance and what comes out of their mouths. we don't realize the vibes we're giving off from "sharing".
when i start dating again, i'm going to opt for lunch dates rather than dinner... to get a beter perspective.
Wyntress the Tigress,
Thank you.
Ms Know It All,
It's a pretty good way to start.
I see you over there playing it cool, brother...
Kofi Bofah,
Yeah couldnt stay there for ever.
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